When I had Ayla, it was amazing. The first is always different. I think because not only is it your first, but it is a new expierence. She was the sweetest baby ever. She was good for anyone, and loved everyone. When Ayla turned One, she started I suppose what they call the terrible two's, but in my case it was the terrible one's. She at first wasn't so bad, it eventually got to the point where she was throwing fits constantly, she would make herself vomit atleast twice a day. I mean putting her fingers in her mouth. At home, at friends, at family outtings and at reaturaunt's. I was out of options and losing my mind. You would catch me giving her anything she wanted just where she would'nt vomit. Then came some very wise advice from a friend. With no expierence she just suggested that the next time Ayla made herself vomit, make her sit in it, knowing Ayla hates dirt or anything of that manner. Going to the last resort thats what i did, and she tried her best to get up, but I made her sit there. She cried and threw a fit, I finally got her up and took her to the bath. That was tha last time she ever made herself vomit. This was one of those times I felt like I was the only parent that probally ever had to deal with something like this. There are kids who do this and if your child does, maybe it's worth it to try this little trick, yet however cruel it sounds. It wasn't, She finally got to feel how I felt every time I had to clean her mess up.